Human Health Connections

I thought a lot about love.

where I work, I see all the time couples who have decided they are in love to marry, or at least they think they are in love enough to have married. I’m not a psychiatrist or marriage counselor so that I draw my own life experiences. Thus, of course, that my own point of view, is here.

The view that we as adults on love, marriage, forever and always has a lot to do with our childhood. If you are an intact family, you tend to be based on a family intact. If you’re a single mother, you are more subject to a single mother.

A person perception of men and women come to our first experience with them, Mom and Dad, or lack there of. If these experiences are positive, then we’ll probably find a positive in our own lives and relationships, when these experiences are not positive, we will probably not, or not, with much hard work and introspection.

When we are young and in love, especially in adolescence, we may experience romantic love as the most important thing in our lives. And, without rhyme or reason, we are totally immersed. Especially if we’re not the kind of lap down to us self sufficient self-confidence. In this case, it is even easier to see another person as the solver of our world as if we are with this belief that a person, the rest of our lives (the other 50 or 60 years) will be idyllic. Of course it is easy to have such notions with no thought of mortgages, electric bills or car payments to interfere with the fantasy. For a teenager to like what else? Speak love to beat each of these creatures, or perhaps remember that you are one yourself. Sentences like I can not continue without him, I’d rather die then be with him / her. will speak each day. Unfortunately, this is the moment in life, sometimes huge, life changing mistakes are made. The baby was born with the “I always love the” guy who is not a “forever” guy who is at all typical.

I work with 20 somethings and most of their version of love begins with sex, with the hope will be a little later. If they do not get the “latest”, they can not understand why.

When we are young we can be crazy to turn away from what we would have hung, and we depend on to what we would have supported. We have neither the life experience and common sense in the future reality of our own emotions, circumstances, or options to be seen.

In the last years and months, I cause a lot of thinking about young love, old love and everything should be in between. And (I now that I get at least half in life) that I think separates happy marriage unhappy marriages, or marriages that do it all. What I think it runs all on one thing and the emotional connection is. It is the feeling that after the first love that you’re not alone. The “this life”. That feeling makes us certain that others share our world. It does not require our world, and they live only space in our world, but they share. This emotional bond that assures us that, whatever happens, we have someone like if we listen. So we know that even if we are not always understood, we are always very appreciated. And a simple telephone connection to anyone on the other hand, no connection at all if it is with emotional connection. There must be a 2-way street. Both people have an emotional connection to do with it, really at all.

In the marriage vows should say “in sickness and health, in good and bad.” But I’ve never heard of someone saying: “The diagnosis is cancer, I want a divorce. This is not the disease, and is generally not bad moments that kill a marriage if people disconnect emotionally because of it.

When there is an emotional disconnect between 2 people in love. It is as if a cable line went down, you can not emotionally hear, smell or see the person at the other end. nor do they let you.

We’ve all had friends with whom we feel especially close. They are more than colleagues or people who play baseball on the same team that we do. Instead, they are the person we feel emotionally attached to the SI. The feeling is not easy to describe something, but to know the people involved it is there. It came when the best of friends.

In a lifetime we are fortunate enough to have one or two friends in our lives. Sometimes, these compounds are a life long friendship, and sometimes they do not. The person you call when things go well, or if things go wrong and you call is the emotional connection.

The connection is not necessarily about agreeing on a presidential election, there is no religious preference, or economic situations, when all these things can do so easily form emotional attachment. But it’s more about inner feelings, via an internal connection. They operated as if part of the heart and soul connected.

In romantic relationships, we sometimes find young emotional connection, but do not really understand until later. Sometimes emotional bond dissolves, as we mature. If you want to marry if the connection is not available or we will end and no idea how we ever thought it was the right person for us left in the first place.